Women do a lot of complaining about never being able to find a perfect man, and ya know what?  There’s no such thing.  It doesn’t exist.  There’s always some important attribute or a multitude of attributes that are missing – either he’s too nice, too hood, not ambitious enough, the dick isn’t good, etc.  But we all know there is no perfect anything – no perfect job, no perfect friend, no perfect house, nothing.

But what if you could create the perfect man?  What kind of attributes would he have? What would he look like?

I would like to take this time to present to you MY perfect man, as it relates to rappers and singers.

In appearance Trey Songz is unsuspecting and adaptable, especially now that he has switched out the cornrows for a nice low cut.  He is the dude you can take home to meet your parents and they will love him.  He’ll oblige them with the proper “Yes sir.” formalities and the “Now I see where she gets her good looks from!” type witticisms.  You can take him anywhere and he will fit in perfectly, from the corporate crowd to the club scene. But that’s as nice as it gets cuz we all know Songz can get gangsta when necessary and what can be sexier than that?  Anyone recall him jumping off the stage at his own show to show a dude in the crowd that he was not to be fucked with??

You need Lil Wayne for his prowess.  He is easily one of the hardest working nigz out there.  Who else do you know that is dominating the radio, cd and mixtape scene?  How many songs can you name that he’s not a part of? He’s adding dudes to his arsenal left and right.  He is a true go-getter and you will never go hungry fuckin with him.  This is a definite attribute that is needed for the perfect man.

Plies has that hood appeal.  He is that nig that all the girls know they shouldn’t mess with but they just gotta have a piece of him.  He wears wife beaters and ridiculous gold chains and has that dope boy car that you want to drive.  He may not have a real 9-to-5 job but he is puttin in that work and if all else fails, he can hustle his way out of any situation.  And he’s also that dude that will fuck your back out.

When shit gets crazy in your life you need a dude who will run your bath water, throw some rose petals in there, undress you, light some candles, fix you a nice glass of wine, and sit next to you at the side of the tub as you unleash the madness of your day onto him.  This dude is Maxwell.  He knows all about a woman’s work.  He will soothe you with sensual melodies and make love to you “til the cops come knockin”

Juelz Santana is a cutie with dimples that I could swin in forever and he has that New York mentality and that’s a necessity.  New York dudes are quick thinkers and their approach is like no other.  It’s the confidence in them that commands attention and respect, and that accent – yaasssss!! And i realize that there’s an insatiable amount of rappers from New York but he just happens to one of the cutest

T.I. is clearly that nig that’s going to stay by your side and go to great lengths to protect what’s his.  And he’s that nig that you can come up with.  You both may have come into the situation with nothing, but in the end you will have “Whatever You Like.”  And that’s what makes a strong relationship – going through the grind together.

Nas is that cool dude that will keep you guessing and intrigued. He’s quiet and keeps to himself but when he speaks, you need to listen.   Burn a couple with this type of dude, and you will be talking for days on end about everything from nuclear wars to panda bears! You need a nig that’s gonna spit some knowledge to you, someone who is going to teach you about stuff you never knew about.

And lastly you need that nig with sex appeal.  Someone you want to stare at all day and fantisize about all night and Nelly is that dude.  He’s like a young L.L. Cool J -  nice lips, nice body, cute face and he’s a Scorpio! Do ya’ll know anything about Scorpios??? That may be another post idea!!

So what is your ideal combination for the perfect man???